Rest in Peace Big Kitty, a Good Cat But An Even Better Friend!
My cat, Big Kitty, died last night @ 3:23 am. After a long fight she finally decide that she had enough and that it was time for a long rest. I miss her. I had to fall asleep for the first time in 10 years without her. She cuddled with me and kept my legs warm. Mind you, she would bite my ankles if I squirmed too much but that was part of her gruff charm. Last night, I watched her die and even though in the end she probably wasn't all there I was glad that I was. I wish I could have put her to sleep because she was in a little pain in the end but I was selfish and I wanted every little moment I could have. She was on the edge but she hung in there due to the fact that she had a strong will but yesterday she stopped eating and then she died fairly quickly. The weather matches my mood. The temperatures dipped below freezing last night and today, I drove around with icicles on my car. I gave my father a ride and then ripped him a new asshole when he dumped his marital problems on me. I just lost a loved one and I didn't feel like putting up with anyone's problems but my own, right now. I just miss her so much and it hurts. Tomorrow my pain will hurt less and even less the day after that but it will take a long time. I need some time for that raw spot in my heart to heal.
The Rainbow Bridge Poem makes me cry every damn time.
6 Comments:
Chin up, Angel. I know you miss her - that's understandable.
/hug
Thank you for the hug, Notta, I need them right now. I will feel better soon, I am just going through the angry and depressed stages of grief.
Angelique,
Sorry to hear of your loss. Bein' a dog I have an innate interest in cats. I can sit and watch them all day. I lived with two for five months. I was truly mystified by them. If they can do that to a dog, I can imagine what they can do to a human.
Again, so sorry.
Whimper...
Freda
Freda, thank you for your kind words. Cats are pretty interesting creatures but dogs are have a special place in my heart. I saw some pictures of you and you are not only beautiful in the inside but on the outside. Thank you, again.
Angelique,
It is a rare circumstance, indeed, where a cat and a person are so well matched. I am sure that Big Kitty will live in your heart forever.
I am so sorry for your loss!
Monty
Monty, thank you, you know exactly what to say to make me feel better. I am happy that she picked me as her momma. I want to adopt another cat but I am just taking my time until the next cat adopts me and enjoying my memories of my kitty babies.
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